Before rings became the symbol of engagements, it was customary for the couple to break a silver or gold coin in two. One half was kept by the man and the other half by the woman to symbolize the marriage act.
Another early betrothal custom was for a young man to weave a bracelet of human hair (his) and offer it to the girl he hoped to marry. If she accepted it, that bracelet symbolized that their lives were woven together for life.
At one time in Denmark, it was customary and considered quite correct for an unmarried couple to exchange rings and live together for one year. If they were happy for the year they stayed together for life. But if not, they returned the rings and went their separate ways, each free to choose another. The custom was called hand-festing. (With This Ring, by June Jenkins)
Even though the plain gold band has been the symbol of true and everlasting love since Roman times, couples have found ways to enhance its simple but powerful message.
Although some brides prefer colored gemstones, the overwhelming choice of today’s bride is the diamond. And the diamond’s history adds to its popularity. Ancient superstitions claim that the diamond’s sparkle was born in the “fires of love”. Wearing a diamond was a guarantee of happiness. Because of this superstition, many people consider the diamond to be the only true engagement ring.
But today’s brides may also choose the emerald or pearl for their engagement stone, or a sapphire which is said to bring good luck. To wear a sapphire was to invite the favor of the gods. Other brides may choose amber which is said to prevent illness or coral which brings good luck. Jewelers can show you a wide range of prices and styles for your wedding and engagement ring choices. Always buy from a reputable jeweler with the confidence of knowing that whatever early tradition you follow, you are choosing each other and the ring as a symbol of that choice.
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